Hippocrates, after curing many diseases, himself fell sick and died.Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
It’s important to remember that we all have limits. At some point we’re going to find ourselves in a moment where we just can’t give any more of ourselves. We’ll continue to do our best, but our “best” simply won’t be good enough. Our failure will be certain before we even have a chance to change the outcome.
Don’t surrender in these moments. Don’t despair. Failure is just as much a part of life as success. Accept the limitations that bind you, and carry on content in the knowledge that you will nevertheless do your part. This is how you approach failure with both wisdom and grace.
If you find it hard to accept failure as a possible consequence of even the best-lived life, take a moment to reflect on our lives in relation to the passing of time.
We don’t expect our life to go on indefinitely. We accept that at some point our life will end as a natural part of the process of living. Yet, we struggle to apply that same principal of finality (a type of natural fatalism) in other aspects of our life. We try and hold on to this illusion of control, but the truth is we have very little control over anything.
We all have an expiration date. As we age, we can become keenly aware of it. That doesn’t mean we give up. Time is a gift. It allows us to put everything else into a shared perspective. If we have to say goodbye tomorrow, then how do you feel about the day you just lived?
- Did you share love or spread gossip?
- Did you help a stranger or buy a latte?
- Did you make the world a better place?
- Did you even try?
Perspective can keep us both honest and focused on something other than ourselves. Accept that gift and use it to change the world—build bridges, tear down walls, mend the broken—the point is you can make a difference today even if you can’t fix it all. Famine, disease and poverty won’t disappear overnight. You’re not going to defeat every obstacle you face today, but you can start chipping away at them.
If we broaden our perspective we can apply this same strategy to our struggles, our business problems and those seemingly insurmountable obstacles. There is no real difference between them. Our obstacles aren’t really obstacles, they’re an opportunity to reflect on our limitations and learn how to anticipate and prepare for failure.
2 thoughts on “We All Have Limits”
Thank you for sharing these wise words. Thinking about doing the best thing is a multi-faceted thing, and the wisdom is in judging the actual best thing, as opposed to the one that feels best, for the moment, but is ultimately an selfish choice, with little or no actual merit, simply meeting a ‘want’ while ignoring real ‘needs’, of self or others.
Your thoughts made me think of few sayings by Seneca. It’s not about “how long, but how well you have lived that is the main thing” and “a gem cannot be polished without friction, nor a man without trials.”